lunes, 1 de noviembre de 2021

Let's Talk About Condoms

Stealthing, or non-consensual condom removal, is now a civil offense in California.
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By Daphne Lee, News Editor
The award-winning series I May Destroy You explored so many aspects of consent through the lens of a sexual assault survivor. Fans have said that they learned new tools and words that could help process and reflect on their own sexual encounters.
 
I was most intrigued by an episode about "stealthing," a slang term for non-consensual condom removal during sex. I Googled it, assuming it would already be illegal in the United States, but I was wrong. So far, California is the first and only state to have outlawed stealthing.
 
What exactly is it? And why are we talking about it now?
Today's Top Story
Stealthing Is a Violation of Consent
Stealthing—or non-consensual condom removal—is considered a type of sexual assault. In California, it's a civil offense for someone to remove condom during sex without their partner's explicit verbal consent.
 
A survey found that nearly 19% of participants had experienced stealthing. Nearly all of them said stealthing is wrong, citing reasons such as a lack of consent and risk of STIs or unplanned pregnancies.
 
In 2017, Yale law student Alexandra Brodsky characterized stealthing as "rape-adjacent" in her term paper, inspiring conversations on the phenomenon and motivating California lawmakers to take action.
 
When people consent to sex with a condom, Brodsky argued, they're consenting to "touch by a condom, not to touch by the skin of a penis." If their partner violated that consent, it can bring emotional distress and physical harm.
 
Survivors said they not only feared STIs and unwanted pregnancies, but also experienced stealthing as a demeaning violation of their bodily autonomy and betrayal of trust.
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Konrad Czechowski, a PhD student who has conducted extensive research on stealthing, says that consent is not simply a verbal yes or no before sex. Rather, it's a process that unfolds over time. "Someone might consent to an act at one moment," he says. "Then they may withdraw their consent, or there may be a number of things that they are consenting to during sexual intercourse—whether it's a different position, or whether it's continuing sex versus not continuing sex."
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Experts say consent education is an important preventive tool for sexual assault and violence. For example, encouraging men to discuss the benefits of using a condom could help shift the narrative so that they don't only see condoms as an avoidance of risk.
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